Gentle, Trusted & Professional Childcare

Caring nanny services for NYC & Jersey City families. 25+ years of experience, safety-first approach, and a warm, development-oriented atmosphere.

  • First Aid & CPR
  • Driver’s License
  • Ukr/Ru/It/En
  • Infants → 10 y.o.
Nelya Ivanchenko — Silver Care Nanny

About Me

Known as Nanny Nelya — warm, expert, safety-first care for NYC & Jersey City families.

My name is Nelya Ivanchenko, and I have been working as a nanny for over 25 years. As a mother of three grown sons, I understand how important it is for a child to feel safe, happy, and loved. I began my career in Ukraine, expanded my experience in Italy and England, and now joyfully care for children here in New York City.

My work is not just childcare – it’s gentle attention to every little hand and heart. I strive to create a warm and secure environment where children can laugh, play, and feel truly happy every day.

I am also fully equipped to ensure safety and professionalism:

  • Driver’s license
  • First Aid and CPR certified
  • Languages: Ukrainian – native; Russian & Italian – high-level proficiency; English – Intermediate

Your child in my hands is in the loving and professional care of Silver Care Nanny.

Serving: New York City & Jersey City

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Services & Advantages — Silver Care Nanny

Full Childcare

Infants to older preschoolers; routines, play, and daily care with a calm, loving approach.

Learning & Development

Age-appropriate games, creativity, educational activities, school/preschool readiness.

Hygiene & Feeding

Meal preparation, feeding support, personal care, and tidy play areas.

Sleep & Routine

Nap schedules, soothing rituals, consistent structure for better rest.

Outdoor & Walks

Fresh-air activities, parks, and safe exploration to build healthy habits.

Flexible Support

Night shifts on demand, substitute for another nanny, travel accompaniment.

Emotional Care

Children feel safe, loved, and happy through patience, empathy, and positive guidance.

Languages

Ukrainian (native), Russian & Italian (high-level), English (Intermediate).

Safety First

CPR & First Aid certified, attentive and experienced driver.

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Parent Testimonials

I can honestly say she has a heart of gold. Calm, honest, and caring are the best words to describe her demeanor.
— Aaron
She is not only a caring nanny but also cooks delicious meals with love.
— Maria
A nanny who not only looks after the children but also keeps them engaged, brings calm to the home, and supports the family in every detail.
— Michelle
She successfully combined care for three children of different ages — preparing meals, helping with school homework, and creating a safe and joyful home.
— Kirsten

For detailed references from previous families, please contact Nanny Nelya — she can provide direct contacts and verifications upon request.

Parent Q&A by Age

Newborn to 12 Months (Infants)

1. How can I support my baby’s development during the first year?

Talk, sing, and make eye contact during everyday routines. Tummy time strengthens muscles, while colorful toys and gentle touch stimulate the senses. Responding to your baby’s needs builds trust and emotional security.

12–18 Months (Early Toddlers)

2. How can I encourage independence in an early toddler?

Let your child practice small tasks like holding a spoon, stacking blocks, or pointing to familiar objects. Celebrate attempts, not perfection—this builds confidence as they begin to explore on their own.

2–3 Years (Older Toddlers)

3. What’s the best way to handle tantrums and big emotions?

Stay calm and acknowledge their feelings (“I see you’re upset because…”). Offer limited choices to give them a sense of control. Keep routines consistent to help them feel secure.

3–5 Years (Preschoolers)

4. How do I nurture curiosity and early learning?

Turn learning into play—count snacks, explore nature on walks, or use pretend play to solve problems. Encourage questions and praise efforts to build a love of discovery.

5–7 Years (Early School Age)

5. How can I keep young children motivated to learn?

Use interactive activities and real-life examples—cooking for math, outdoor exploration for science. Celebrate effort, not just correct answers, to foster a growth mindset.

7–10 Years (Older Kids)

6. How do I support emotional and social growth?

Encourage teamwork through sports or group projects. Discuss feelings and friendships openly. Model respect and healthy communication so they learn by example.

All Ages (Birth to 10 Years)

7. What is the most important factor in raising happy, confident children?

Consistent love, patience, and positive role modeling. Children learn by watching adults—your kindness and stability create a strong foundation for every stage of growth.

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